Saturday, July 18, 2009

It's a Happy Time/Its a Sad time


I hope everyone out there is happy joyous and free. I know I certainly am. I have been for 1339 days now and I am just amazed about that. Amazed I say. A big thanks to my Higher Power for giving me the strength and courage I need each and every day to get me through it sober once again. Amazing.

I have posted here about my sister in the past. You can read past posts here and here. She is FINALLY HERE living under my roof. She is so happy yet sad at the same time. She is happy to be out of the relationship that she was in but she is sad because her children are crushed. She has 3 children and the youngest is having a hard time with the whole situation. This is the kid I always refer to as my other son on here now and then. He is a great young boy and he is going to be OK. Today is only day one. She has received many texts and calls from her kids and she gets upset when she communicates with anyone that decided to stay behind. She has made up her mind and I pray that each day the pain lessens for her. She has put up with so much in the past 22 years and she deserves to be happy, joyous and free!!

So that's my good news for the day. She has been a cleaning fool and my house will be it tip-top shape in no time. Hell she worked on the living room today and after about 5 minutes I turned around and it looked like a different room! She is GOOD. We got a good laugh over that and there will be many more to come. I need to stock up on depends. Its going to be a laugh your ass off until you pee yourself kinda time until she gets her affairs in order and gets an apartment of her very own. *Please God, don't let her change her mind*. The guilt is already wreaking havoc on her. So until we chat again, be well my cyber drunks.......QUEEN.......OUT

9 comments:

dAAve said...

Making the best of the situation.
Good on ya.

Tall Karen said...

Lots of reasons to celebrate at your house! I hope your sister can continue to find the stremgth to take care of herself. She is SO blessed to have you! Thanks Q

Indigo said...

This is a precarious time for your sister. Guilt is the one factor that almost always plays in a woman returning to an abusive or bad relationship. Hopefully keeping busy will give her what she needs to keep going in the right direction. I think you're a godsend to your sister dear friend. (Hugs)Indigo

Bill said...

I hope-hope-hope your sister will stick with her commitment to do the right thing for herself. Her children will thank her for it later, even if they can't now.
Rent Delores Claiborne and watch it together.

Akannie said...

Hey Queenie--

Sisters ROCK! You guys are equally blessed here...prayers for her and the kids to make this transition as gently as possible.

xoxox

Kristin H. said...

You be well, too, Queenie girl.

Syd said...

Sounds great to have your sister there. I hope that she will do what it takes for her to be filled with peace and hope.

Lou said...

How wonderful that you can offer her a refuge. Here is hoping each day fills her with the courage to stay away from that situation.

Zanejabbers said...

Depends? Laughing with a sister is so different than laughing with anyone else. Glad she is with you.God be with you bof.