Friday, July 3, 2009

Now I'm PISSED

First off Happy 4th of July to all of my fellow Americans. What a blessing to have been born into this country.

I started out my evening with a show at the MGM Grand. My sister was kind enough to treat me to a hilarious few hours with Joan Rivers and Don Rickles. OMG. Too funny. Six rows from the stage. It was awesome.

On the way home I got a call from my SIL (POS sister/my BFF). She tells me what an asshole her brother is--like I didn't fuckin LIVE that nightmare. I know this, but I ask anyway. She said he brought his new girlfriend into where she works to introduce her. No big deal really, UNTIL SIL asked "So have you seen J lately?"(she knows he has NOT) and he said "yeah". OK, apparently his definition of lately is vastly different from everyone else on the planet because the last time he saw my son was Christmas Day. Whatever. Then he comments "Well if his mother(that would be me) wasn't such a psycho". WHAT? I have been VERY PATIENT and very much NOT a psycho for the last three years when I speak to him. SIL stood up for me and he said "Oh what are you two FRIENDS now?" and she said "We have never NOT been friends." Oh how I love that woman!

He STILL does not have medical insurance for our son. I thought that if I handled this insurance issue like a big girl and not call him all the names that are floating around in my head just DYING to come out-that he would cooperate like a big boy and we could settle this amicably. I thought wrong. Guess who is going to go to child support enforcement on Monday and inform them that he is once again in CONTEMPT of our court order. How do you like me now mister? I need to remember that I am dealing with one very sick alcoholic. Patience and kindness mean nothing to him and the only method that ever works is taking him to court. I thought it was going to be different this time. Our phone calls have (or so I thought) been civil. I would be lying if I said it didn't hurt when she told me about the psycho comment. INITIALLY it did anyway. Now I'm pissed. Will that jackass ever learn that it is not a good idea to piss off the QUEEN?

10 comments:

Tall Karen said...

It's good that you have a plan of action. And willingness to follow thru.

Page 552 of the Big Book has really specific directions for feeling much better...but you're probably not going to like it.

suggestion: Do it anyway :)

dAAve said...

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Kristin H. said...

dood. that's jacked. Seriously. Psycho my ass.

Pulling for you.....

Indigo said...

I think your ex is related to mine. He would be nice as hell to my face, but the things he said about me to my daughter were totally degrading and uncool. J's the most important thing here. If you have to take your ex to court and appear to be the bitch in his eyes. I think I would prefer to be the bitch (winks).

Psycho is feeling so unsecure about yourself you have to put down your ex-wife in front of your girlfriend to appear likeable. (Hugs)Indigo

Jess Mistress of Mischief said...

Wow that's a lot of contempt.

I pray that you and he will both receive the will of God and that God cares for your Son and all his needs in exactly the way that is necessary.

Zanejabbers said...

SOCKIT to him honey, I have no respect for a man that won't take care of his children. SOOOO my own Dad.

Vivvy said...

You want for me to whoop his stupid fucking ass for you. I've got a whole bunch of BITCH in be I need something to do with. POS is a POS big time. Trying to make like he's more then a donor of his eww I have to look away when I type this one.... sperm.... hope I spelled it right. Best thing he ever did was leave the boys life. He's has no influence on that child which is GREAT. You alone as his mother and father do ten fold better then he EVER could after therapy proper meds and beyond. So, let him give false impressions to his next victim. In the end truth always prevails and the dick with show his ways. I am done for now. Good day.

Syd said...

He just doesn't get it that messing with the Queen means some serious hurting is going to occur. Take care of yourself.

Patty said...

Queen, I really don't "know" you that well, but I am going to say it anyway. Why would your BFF, SIL, or whatever, tell you all that negative stuff? I mean really, what good purpose does it serve for her to tell you all that stuff, the girlfriend, psycho, etc? From where I sit, she appears to be a pot stirrer. Stirring up the pot and then watching you flip your lid. I would be careful. I have been in these situations before where the innocent middleman loves to stir the pot and watch the chaos. Maybe I am wrong, but next time she wants to give you some dish on your ex, say, I would rather talk about something else or, rather not hear it today, and see what happens. I would be willing to bet she stirs his pot too with stuff about you. Just sayin', hope you are not offended.

Akannie said...

Show him the wrath of Queenie, baby.

This kind of s*#t drives me crazy too.
Need some help?? Gimme a call...

xoxoxoxo